Noel started a post earlier today but she kept falling asleep so no idea when it will be posted. She didn’t get a lot of sleep on Monday night after the surgery. The next day was better but last night she kept getting awakened by her doctor’s “entourage” of residents, medical students, physician assistants, etc. Finally, Annie told her nurse “no mas” and the nurse kept the entourage out of her room and she got some good sleep. Still today she was sleeping a lot. We did do about seven circuits around the ward, so that was good, but she had a blood transfusion in the afternoon and the medication pretty much knocked her out, for what she said was a good nap, but it was unfortunate if she wanted to communicate with her sister Ellen when she was visiting.

Part of the reason for these visits seems to be that the doctor’s entourage can’t quite believe Annie’s birth date. She looks much younger, they say – something the doctor made a point of telling me when he called this morning. (Aside: As if I haven’t been hearing this all our married life.)

Someone remarked to me in an email today that this blog hasn’t been very clear on the details and what we know. So here’s what we know. During the surgery they found a lot of malignant tumor, which they suspect is ovarian cancer but the ultimate diagnosis of that will have to be determined after the pathology report is received. Part of it got into her colon and they had to take out a section of that, but they re-connected it without have to do an external ostomy. Her doctor felt the surgery went well, and despite how extensive the cancer was he was pleased that he thought they got about 95% of it. They’ll have to use chemotherapy on what remains. The goal right now is for Noel to recover from the surgery, which she is doing quite nicely. After she does that (five to six weeks), she’ll start chemotherapy. They’ve sent samples of the tumor out for analysis and for testing to see which chemotherapy agents seem to have the most effect upon it. If she does her chemotherapy at UCSF (University of California San Francisco – which is where she had the surgery and is now), she may also have some clinical trials available (whether we do those is another question). But there is a lot of information to gather and assess before that decision is made. Meanwhile we will focus on healing and what we can do (e.g., diet, exercise, etc. – our friend Bob Wicker in Minnesota says she has to give up chardonnay but may be able to still have some champagne!).

A little about Annie’s medical care team. Her doctor is John Chan, MD; he is head of the Gynecologic Oncology department at UCSF. UCSF is one of the top programs for oncology and for gynecologic oncology in particular, and Dr. Chan is one of the best in the country. We had him vetted and checked, including by one of my childhood friends at the National Cancer Institute, and he’s as good as we could wish for. So as far as medical expertise and care is concerned, we have all we could want. Dr. Chan has been very attentive to Noel and to us; we’re in very good shape in that regard. As for UCSF and the nursing care, it’s been great – aside from sometimes having too many folks coming in at night to check Annie’s BP (age) and such! But they’ve been great.

Right now Annie is on a “sips and chips” diet – that means a few sips of water and some chips of ice. Otherwise she’s getting her nutrition from an IV. The first step is to make sure that her re-sected colon is functioning properly. Once they are certain that that has healed properly, she can start having real food and they can consider discharge. We suspect discharge won’t come before Monday, but we don’t know for sure. Noel is doing her best to speed things up – she’s probably making another circuit of the ward as I type this.

One downside of UCSF is that their television station coverage is severely limited. They have CNN, the Weather Channel and a bunch of local stations, but no tennis channel (Noel’s favorite) and no ESPN (which the ND – Stanford game may be on Saturday night). Bummer. I have to do extra duty at home with the DVR so she can have something to watch when she gets home (although we do get the tennis channel 24/7, which she loves, aside from the “Bag Check” segment).

I pick up Luke in the morning at the airport in Oakland and we’ll go in to see Noel then. After that it’s Thanksgiving at home, and in particular thanking God for Annie as mother and wife.

Noel has read (or has heard, from my reading) all of your comments, and it buoys her tremendously. Happy Thanksgiving and many blessings to you all.

Clark

Today was a good day. The nurse came in to ask if Noel could sit on the edge of the bed, and then stand, and then maybe walk a few steps. So she then circled the unit twice. An hour later she decided to go again and we circled the unit three times!

She’s still sleepy after the surgery and with the pain medication but otherwise fully engaged. Her doc came by this afternoon – the first visit after the surgery that she remembers – and she was encouraged with his assessment. Long road ahead with chemotherapy but she’ll be ready for it.

She feels your support.

Clark

Dear family and friends
Clark Ellen and I make a greAT group. They were on hold last night until 9, but at least i was awake. I think recovery is going very weell. Today I got up for the first time. Clark, the nurses and I walked A square around fifth floor and i am still sitting up. We are supposed to see the doctor this afternoon, and hope he has somE more info. The blog has been fun so far.and ESP first and long time reconnecting. Thank you for your friendship, prayers, And support.

Love Annie/noel

Ellen and I were with Annie as she was moved up to her room. She’s NPO! No liquids or anything – and it’s driving her crazy. But she looks good – good color, lots of questions, yet wanting to sleep and rest. Those 5 1/2 hour surgeries are tough. She’s aware of your support, which helps her go hour to hour. We were satisfied with her condition and the nursing care, so we have left her for the evening. I’ll be leaving the iPad with her so she can post again on her own (expect glitches – ahem).

Clark

The recovery room nurse just stopped in to say that she’s doing great and should be going up to her room as soon as they finish the shift change. As an aside, it’s a very international nursing group here – the recovery room nurse is Irish, the intake nurse was Russian and another was German.

Clark

Just spoke with her surgeon.  The surgery went well but long – over five hours. She’s in the recovery room now and I’ll see her in a couple of hours. We thank you all so much for your thoughts and prayers.

Clark

The battle is on

Dear Family and Friends,

I can truly say I’m happy to be having my hysterectomy, Mon., Nov. 21, at 11:00 a.m.  It has been amazing to hear from so many of you and I feel buoyed up by your prayers and energy.  I have great medical care, and greater home team support from Clark and my sister Ellen.  My sister Sarah from Denver will be coming after Thanksgiving to help with home recovery.  I’ll be in the hospital for Thanksgiving, but Luke will come up from LA, and we all look forward to seeing ND upset Stanford.  Friends Kathy and Jack Berkemeyer from Chicago will join us.

Concerning my name.  My official name is now Noel Ann Stanton.  I kept the Noel from Sr. Noel days, because that’s the only name many folks knew.  I am still Annie to all of my family and Falls City friends.  I know it gets confusing.  To check the blog, just go to noelstanton.com.

Clark and Ellen will be posting for the next days until I am fully awake.  Your prayers and friendship mean the world to me and to us.  Love Noel  and Annie